Ep. 316 | The Grief No One Talks About in Becoming Her

Everyone talks about the excitement of growth.

The confidence.
The breakthroughs.
The next level.

But almost no one talks about the grief.

Because every new version of you requires an old version of you to be released.

And even when that version of you no longer serves you, she was still familiar.

Maybe she was the people-pleaser.
The over-giver.
The woman who always put everyone else first.
The one who stayed small, stayed safe, avoided conflict, or kept the peace at all costs.

You may know she's not who you want to be anymore, but she helped you survive. She got you here. And there can be real sadness in saying goodbye to someone you've been for a very long time.

In this episode, I'm talking about the grief that often comes with personal growth, why you can miss something and still not want it back, and how many of your old patterns were never signs that something was wrong with you...they were attempts to protect you.

Because becoming her isn't always about tearing yourself apart and rebuilding from scratch.

Sometimes it's about looking at old versions of yourself with gratitude instead of judgment.

If you've been feeling emotional, unsettled, or unexpectedly sad while growing, this episode is your reminder that nothing has gone wrong.

You're not moving backward.

You're not broken.

You're just becoming.