Ep. 327 | The Stories Running Your Life

What if some of the things you believe about yourself aren't actually facts?

They're just stories you've repeated so many times that they started to feel like the truth.

I've never been good with money.
I always quit.
I'm just not a confident person.
I can't stick with anything.
I'm too old to start over.
I always choose the wrong people.
I'm not good at relationships.
I just don't have enough discipline.
People always leave.
This is just who I am.

The problem is, your brain doesn't just tell the story. It starts looking for evidence to prove it.

And before you know it, the story you believe begins shaping the decisions you make, the opportunities you take (or don't), the conversations you avoid, the relationships you choose, and ultimately, the life you create.

Because the evidence you create today becomes fuel for the story you tell yourself tomorrow.

In this episode, I'm talking about the stories quietly running your life, how your brain turns repeated thoughts into "proof," and why changing what you believe about yourself can change everything that comes after it.

This is one of the reasons I love coaching so much. I've experienced every kind of coaching myself—from private coaching to group coaching—and I'm still amazed when my own coach uncovers a story I've been carrying that I didn't even realize was there. And I see the same thing happen with the women I coach.

Once you can see the story, you can question it.

Once you question it, you can stop automatically living from it.

And once you begin creating different evidence, you give yourself something new to believe.

Because while there is so much in this world you cannot control, you can begin changing what you think, how you respond, and what you choose to do next.

And that work changes everything.

Becoming Her Volume 2 begins THIS Saturday, August 29th, and enrollment closes THIS Friday, August 28th.

Volume 2 brings new topics, deeper conversations, an enhanced workbook, and an entirely new framework that I'm teaching for the first time inside Becoming Her.

This framework is designed to help you uncover the beliefs, stories, and patterns operating underneath the surface—the ones influencing your choices before you even realize they're there—and give you a practical way to begin creating evidence for something different.

Not to manufacture some shiny "new version" of yourself.

But to uncover the woman you've always been capable of becoming underneath the old beliefs, limiting thoughts, and stories that have been deciding what's possible for you.

If you've been waiting to join us, this is it. Save your spot before enrollment closes Friday.

And one more incredible update: Unstoppable November 2026 is officially SOLD OUT!

This November, a group of women will join me for three days at our luxury VIP retreat, stepping away from the noise of everyday life to dive deeply into the work, experience intentionally curated surprises, have the conversations we don't always make space for, laugh—a lot—and come back home to themselves.

I cannot wait.

But first…

Becoming Her Volume 2 starts Saturday.

Let's uncover the stories you've been living from, and start writing some better ones.