Over the past five years, this podcast has been such a special space where Iāve shared my personal experiences with weight loss and the emotional ups and downs of the diet roller coaster. Itās been my mission to help women transform their lives, embrace their bodies, and live their best livesāand itās been one of the greatest gifts of my life.
In this episode, I reflect on the incredible successes Iāve seen from the women in the Transform Boss program and share some big news about whatās coming in 2025. With a new podcast and fresh opportunities through BFLYCoaching, Iām expanding my focus to help women achieve more than weight loss, including mindset shifts, better relationships, goal setting, and overall well-being.
Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Iām so grateful for each of you and canāt wait to reconnect on January 31st. Together, weāll continue to grow, learn, and create the lives weāve always dreamed of.Ā
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ā«[0:08] The purpose and impact...
Itās time to stop waiting and start living boldly!
In this episode, weāre diving into what it means to embraceĀ yourĀ one big, beautiful, bold lifeāunapologetically.
No more waiting for āsomeday.ā Today is the day to step into your best self and live with purpose, passion, and courage.
Whether itās taking that first scary step, owning your story, or simply giving yourself permission to dream bigger, this episode will leave you inspired to seize the moment and make it count.
Letās do thisābecauseĀ nowĀ is your time!
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[1:36] You need to hear this
ā«[2:30] Stop delaying your happiness
ā«[3:48] What does āyour one big bold lifeā mean to you?
ā«[4:20] Defining greatness for yourself on your terms
ā«[5:31] What are you giving your future self today?
ā«[7:24] You have permission to live the life you want
ā«[8:02] Itās okay to pivot
ā«[8:52] Transform Boss Membership Announcement and Special Offer
Letās talk about managing holiday overwhelm and making this season truly special without all the pressure.
You donāt need a perfect holiday to have a wonderful one.
Set realistic expectations, simplify where you can, and remember to take care of yourself through it all.
Focus on what really mattersātime with family, making memories, and finding joy in the simple moments.
Letās make this holiday season a little more meaningful and a lot less stressful.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[2:00] Overwhelm isnāt a requirement to a meaningful holiday season
ā«[3:05] This is for all my perfectionists!
ā«[4:07] Being intentional during the holiday season
ā«[4:23] Setting realistic expectations
ā«[5:29] Prioritize and simplify
ā«[6:43] Making time for yourself
ā«[7:30] Take a pause
ā«[8:27] Focus on connection not perfection
People-pleasing might feel like keeping the peace, but it can quietly drain our energy, time, and self-worth.
This episode dives into the roots of people-pleasing, why we crave approval, and the hidden toll it takes on our well-being.
Discover practical steps to set healthy boundaries, nurture self-respect, and reclaim your energy for what truly matters.
Tune in and learn how to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and step into a more empowered and authentic life.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[2:26] āSaying yes to something doesnāt really mean anything if you never say no.ā
ā«[3:02] How people pleasing can be draining
ā«[3:46] How socialization has impacted most women
ā«[3:56] Perfectionism
ā«[4:40] How people pleasing can create resentment
ā«[5:56] Fear of rejection
ā«[8:56] Steps to overcome people pleasing
Comparison has a sneaky way of robbing us of joy, making us feel like weāre always falling short.
Itās easy to get caught up in what others are doing, but that mindset keeps us stuck and unfulfilled.
By shifting our focus to our own progress and celebrating our personal milestones, we can reclaim our happiness.
Life becomes richer when we stop measuring ourselves against others and embrace our unique journey.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[4:09] Comparing your experience
ā«[5:17] When you compare yourself to Google results
ā«[5:53] Shaming yourself
ā«[7:40] Allowing yourself to feel emotion
ā«[9:00] The importance of support
ā«[10:37] Comparing yourself to social media
ā«[11:47] Disconnecting due to comparison
Letās talk about something we all face on the weight loss journey: disappointment. For emotional eaters, it can be tough, and those feelings can start to weigh on you (pun intended!) āwhether itās setting unrealistic goals, obsessing over the scale, or feeling like youāre constantly falling short.
Iāve been there, and I get it. In this episode, Iāll share some practical ways to handle those tough moments, like focusing on non-scale victories, practicing self-compassion, and finding support in community.
Itās all about embracing the process, one small step at a time, and remembering that real progress goes far beyond any number on the scale.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[2:27] Building evidence
ā«[4:29] Expectations
ā«[6:33] Plateaus
ā«[7:09] Perfectionism
ā«[8:28] The power of coaching
ā«[9:07] Changing the dialogue
ā«[10:36] Self-compassion and kindess
Many of us develop a āweight identityā based on how weāve seen ourselves through the lens of our body, shaped by past experiences, comments from others, or struggles with food.
This self-perception can affect not just how we approach weight loss but how we maintain it.
Often, mental and emotional factors, like feeling trapped by old habits or beliefs, make the journey even harder.
But when we begin to embrace self-acceptance and foster a healthy relationship with food, we can break free from those old patterns.
Itās about shedding the emotional weight too, allowing us to live in a way that feels good and sustainable, not just on the scale but in our daily lives.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[2:13] What is a āweight identityā?
ā«[4:52] What you think and what you feel, is what you will become
ā«[6:37] Your body is not an apology
ā«[7:30] Understanding your limiting beliefs
ā«[8:19] Creating a new identity
ā«[8:46] Breaking free from your old identityĀ
ā«[9:05] Who are you now?
Building healthy relationships starts with self-work.
By understanding and improving ourselves, we lay the foundation for stronger connections with others.
Expectations, both spoken and unspoken, can significantly impact relationshipsātoo often, they lead to disappointment or frustration when they arenāt aligned.
Itās essential to recognize that everyone comes with unique experiences and perspectives.
When we approach relationships with open minds and a willingness to understand those differences, we can reduce miscommunication and foster deeper, more fulfilling connections.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[1:17] Relationships with others
ā«[2:08] Thinking that if someone was different, that your life would be better
ā«[3:03] All you can control is how you show up in the relationship
ā«[3:24] Expectations and our rulebooks for others
ā«[6:25] Causing and avoiding suffering
ā«[9:18] When you think something, you will create it
ā«[10:37] Empathy and compassion
ā«[10:37] How would love show...
The relationship we have with ourselves is the cornerstone of every other relationship in our lives.
When we engage in negative self-talk and compare ourselves to others, it erodes our self-esteem and affects how we connect with those around us.
Thatās why the upcoming āRelationships Campā is such an important opportunity! This virtual event is designed specifically for women who want to deepen their relationship with themselves, which in turn will enhance their connections with others.
Itās a chance to invest in yourself, break free from the cycle of comparison, and experience transformative personal growth.
Donāt miss out on this opportunity to nurture the most important relationship you haveāthe one with yourself.
Join us at the camp and take the first step toward a more fulfilling life.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[1:03] Checking in with yourself as we approach the end of the year
ā«[2:25] Podcast announcement
ā«[8:28] What is a relationship with yourself?
ā«[8:53] When too much...
In this episode, Coach Jenn and I explore the complex relationship between stress and weight loss.
We delve into how stress impacts our bodies and minds, often sabotaging our best efforts to achieve and maintain weight goals.
Recognizing personal stress triggers becomes a crucial step in this journey.
By understanding what sets off our stress responses, we can adopt healthy coping mechanisms that foster resilience and emotional well-being.
Through emotional processing and self-awareness, we learn to build a positive relationship with food, where eating becomes a source of nourishment rather than a reaction to stress.
Join us as we discuss practical strategies for integrating these insights into your everyday life.
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In this episodeā¦
ā«[1:34] How we help women achieve and celebrate their goals in Transform Boss
ā«[3:32] Life is 50/50
ā«[5:55] Stress can be used positively
ā«[6:22] Our emotions can be indicators of what is going on
ā«[7:23] Itās okay to feel negative emotion
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